Who Can You Approach For Help When A Loved One Is Being Abused?
Intimate partner violence is very common in the US. In fact, 1 in 4 women and 1 in 10 men have experienced physical and sexual violence from their partners. Despite this large number, many victims are unable to seek help due to a fear of retaliation from their abusers. In these instances, one of their only options is to rely on someone else. If you’re this certain someone to a friend or loved one, it’s best to contact professional groups for assistance rather than intervene on your own to ensure your own safety. So, here are a few professionals and groups to approach:
Law enforcement authorities
Police officers and sheriffs are some of the law enforcement professionals you can contact. They are trained in protecting and serving citizens, helping to preserve lives that are stuck in dangerous situations. They are often criminal justice graduates, who have a background that allows them to respond to risky situations. They are trained to think under pressure, provide empathy, and listen to victims. They are also skilled in handling high-tension situations and detaining the abuser. Officers can immediately spring into action to bring your loved one to safety. Contact 911 or your local area’s police station for immediate help. Their contact numbers and addresses are available on your city’s government website.
Domestic violence organizations
There are several organizations that aim to help victims leave their abusers, find a safe place to stay, and provide counseling. They are often run by domestic violence advocates from different backgrounds with the common goal of eliminating domestic violence, assisting victims, and improving their lives moving forward. They also hold sessions on abuse prevention, collaborate with other groups, and assist in state policy development. One organization to contact is the North Carolina Coalition Against Domestic Violence. Their website has resources for victims like county-specific agencies to better serve those from the state. Another is the Domestic Violence Shelter and Services, Inc., which provides emergency shelters and individual support among many other services for abuse victims.
National hotlines
National hotlines often operate 24/7 for immediate help. Most are now reachable via live chat lines for more confidential conversations online. However they can be contacted via a landline. Hotline operators are trained to provide assistance and information to events like domestic abuse. This is because most of them have human services degrees, that helps train them in empathy and communication skills. They are trained in helping those in need, with some specialized in areas like child and family services. As such, they will tell you what to do depending on your loved one’s situation and get them the proper services they need. The National Domestic Violence Hotline can be contacted by dialing 1-800-799- SAFE (7233) or texting “START” to 88788. The National Sexual Assault Online Hotline can be reached by calling 1-800-656 HOPE (4673) or chatting with a staff member at online.rainn.org.
Legal professionals
Domestic violence lawyers will help the victim in the legal process to prosecute their abuser. These attorneys and advocates are knowledgeable in the laws available to help protect victims and represent them in protection order hearings. The Domestic Violence Prevention Initiative of Legal Aid of NC is one to approach for your loved one. Their services are available statewide and they can be contacted via telephone or appointment at their office. However, keep in mind that they only provide legal services and assistance — and not immediate help. If your loved one needs immediate attention, contact the previous professionals we’ve mentioned above. Domestic violence is something that must be immediately addressed for the victim’s safety and the abuser’s prosecution. If someone you know is experiencing abuse, contact any of the professionals and groups we’ve listed immediately and they will assist you accordingly.
Article contributed by Rosalie John